What is Tantric Sex?
The relationship between two lovers that leads to a path of enlightenment is called Tantra. It works with the heightening and prolonging of sexual feelings that unite the couple in love making. Sex is the highest form of energy in the universe. The use of a ritualized love making and sexual meditation is used to heighten the senses to the point of ultimate release. Tantric sex treats the orgasm as a cosmic and divine experience. This is what tantric sex is.
Tantra provides a little sacredness to every gesture and sensory perception, but treating the whole experience in a playful manner.
The practice of Tantra brings the physical, erotic and the cosmic energies together. Tantra is a spiritual experience that uses sexuality and sensuality as a conscious meditation. Tantra extends the time of your lovemaking, through the slow and thoughtful use of sex. Tantra practitioners use the physical, mental and sexual exercises to increase their pleasure.
The bond between the two people is very important. Heightening of your own feelings and the feelings of your partner are very important in Tantric sex. You have to communicate to your partner your own needs and desires. The love between the two is very important.
Your sexual desires and feelings along with your partners are important in Tantric sex to be able to merge with the gods and the cosmos. With sexual desires the two of you become one with the universe.
Tantric sex and how is it used?
Prolonging the sexual act is at the core of Tantra. The experience would start with a Tantric Sex Massage, which can lead to a slow and deliberate intercourse session.
In normal sex without tantra being involved, the goal is to bring your partner to climax as soon as possible. It is completely opposite in Tantra, every moment is to be savored and enjoyed, the sensations one feels are prolonged, and the union between a man and a woman is sacred. You climax naturally and thus it is longer and more pleasurable. Orgasm is the last thing on the list and is not desired to come soon.
This was first written in the famous Indian book called Kama Sutra, which translates to the art of lovemaking. It was written in the 4th century.
The feeling of pleasure is heightened when a man can be in a state of climax without actually ejaculating. A man can have many orgasms like that with no release and the pleasure for both is increased.
Here are some ways to increase your sexual pleasure and libido through the use of Tantra.
It ends up heightening your senses, so you can feel your body with a heightened sense of awareness. A light stroke of a feather can be a powerful and sensual Aphrodisiac.
There is no pressure to perform, since you are not looking for an orgasm. Men have performance anxiety and women also have anxiety, but an anxiety to have an orgasm. The goal of Tantra is not to look for the final moment, but rather living the pleasure by the moment of pleasure.
Tantra heals the scars of previous relationships. The scars could also come from abusive masturbation or sexual abuse.
A couple can experience, through tantra, a deep bond of togetherness, and have love and intimacy in the process.
